"Growing in friendship involves learning through conversation who you are as individuals. It's having fun together and spending quality and quantity time together.
...Relax and enjoy each other's company. Look for activities and settings that allow you to spend time together and talk freely. And don't limit yourselves to going out on dates. Look for ways to share the different parts of your life - the fun, the mundane, and the in-between. Work together and play together; serve side by side.
The strategic question to keep in mind is: How can you let each other see the "real you"? Whatever it is you love, what it is that captures your imagination, invite the other person into it - and ask the other to take you into his or her world too."
p. 79 bmg. - thanks Josh for well crafted words, this speaks to me so as what I believe is for myself a most in-depth and fundamental relation foundation building framework. It's the place, where guarding of the heart becomes mutual, where trust is build, where hardships are won and where joy begins to flow into every area. Where rest is assured. I long for this place.
"Fairy tales do not tell children the dragons exist. Children already know that dragons exist. Fairy tales tell children the dragons can be killed."
"I don't deny," he said, "that there should be priests to remind men that they will one day die. I only say that at certain strange epochs it is necessary to have another kind of priests, called poets, actually to remind men that they are not dead yet."
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